This is an aspect of things I haven't talked about before. Not in public anyway. When i started to think about it lately i realised what a difficult issue it is.
Some of it's come out of some IM conversations I've had lately and some of it out of talking to my daughter about sex over the last couple of years. She'll be 13 next year and so i guess it's inevitable that mum has to answer some awkward questions.
But what makes it harder is when you're not sure of the answers yourself. For example she asked me about rape. Well, as it happens it was BECAUSE i was raped that she came into the world and i've NEVER regretted having my eldest girl.
So when my daughter asks me 'is rape wrong?' it's hard for me to answer because of course UNLESS i'd been raped i wouldn't have had my beautiful eldest daughter, would i?
If i said to her, yes, rape IS wrong i'd be more or less wishing she hadn't been born, wouldn't i?
On the other hand if i said no, rape isn't wrong then i might be leading her into danger.
So i'm confused about what i should say to her.
And t gets even weirder when she asks me how i FELT after being raped.
i mean, it's just impossible for me to give her an HONEST answer that makes much sense.
Sure, i can say at the time i thought i didn't want it to happen.
Yes, i can say he hurt me, humiliated me and left me feeling worthless.
Yes, i can say i was scared, thought he might kill me and was a bundle of nerves for months later.
But how can i say i ENJOYED what happened to me? (Because i DID!)
How can i say it was the BEST sex i've ever had and it turned me on big time?
How can i say i CAME from being raped; i had an orgasm BECAUSE i was being raped?
How can i say i LOVED being used with no thought for my feelings?
How can i say i LOVED being treated with total contempt and humiliated in the worst way?
How can i say i LOVED being tied up, gagged, fucked in all three of my holes, beaten and forced to do all kinds of painful and degrading things?
So i suppose the question is - even if you assume that maybe i'm just a sick degraded slut who gets off on being treated like shit - how the hell do i explain things to my daughter?
Especially as i want her to go on loving and respecting me.
Any ideas?
A blog about me, about my life experiences, about my thoughts on life in general and especially my thoughts about what it means to be female and what sex is or ought to be like.
Friday, 2 November 2012
Friday, 24 August 2012
My newest blog
Because I've often been asked about my life experiences I've decided to start a brand new blog where I'll write about them.
It's called 'Donna's Journey to Enlightenment' and the url is:
http://donnasjourneytoenlightnment.blogspot.co.uk/
It begins of course with my 'road to Damascus moment' - my rape at 18 years old and how it began to open my eyes to what I really was and what the proper relationship between men and women was.
Please check it out and comment!
I'll keep this blog going for my more philosophical posts on society and so on.
It's called 'Donna's Journey to Enlightenment' and the url is:
http://donnasjourneytoenlightnment.blogspot.co.uk/
It begins of course with my 'road to Damascus moment' - my rape at 18 years old and how it began to open my eyes to what I really was and what the proper relationship between men and women was.
Please check it out and comment!
I'll keep this blog going for my more philosophical posts on society and so on.
Thursday, 23 August 2012
The culture of entitlement
Once upon a time us girls were happy to be taken care of by a man. He was the head of the household and what he said went. Then we got brainwashed by the feminists and suddenly we thought that we were as good as he was.
Before long they were even telling us that we were BETTER than him.
All our former DUTIES like being a good wife and mother went right out of the window.
Suddenly instead of having DUTIES we had RIGHTS.
OK, at first we went along with that but then rights turned into privileges and the next thing we know privileges had become ENTITLEMENTS.
Suddenly us girls were ENTITLED to every fucking thing we wanted and to hell with the guys if they dared to object or even question our demands.
Needs turned into wants and wants into whims, fads and in the end total self-centred indulgence.
Bad behaviour by girls became the norm; respect, consideration, duty, you name it all went down the pan faster than you could say 'whoa!'
One time us girls knew what our proper place in the world was.
Then the feminists started trying to make us all equal.
NOW it seems that just because we're female we need to be treated SPECIAL.
We are supposed to demand everything we want, keep on looking out for more things to demand and basically act like total self-centred spoilt brats.
Well, that's what the culture of entitlement means.
We're 'entitled' to anything we want just because we're female!
That's the sad state of things in the world these days.
The sooner we go back to doing what's RIGHT and to thinking about our DUTIES in the word rather than about our 'entitlements' the better place the world will be!
Before long they were even telling us that we were BETTER than him.
All our former DUTIES like being a good wife and mother went right out of the window.
Suddenly instead of having DUTIES we had RIGHTS.
OK, at first we went along with that but then rights turned into privileges and the next thing we know privileges had become ENTITLEMENTS.
Suddenly us girls were ENTITLED to every fucking thing we wanted and to hell with the guys if they dared to object or even question our demands.
Needs turned into wants and wants into whims, fads and in the end total self-centred indulgence.
Bad behaviour by girls became the norm; respect, consideration, duty, you name it all went down the pan faster than you could say 'whoa!'
One time us girls knew what our proper place in the world was.
Then the feminists started trying to make us all equal.
NOW it seems that just because we're female we need to be treated SPECIAL.
We are supposed to demand everything we want, keep on looking out for more things to demand and basically act like total self-centred spoilt brats.
Well, that's what the culture of entitlement means.
We're 'entitled' to anything we want just because we're female!
That's the sad state of things in the world these days.
The sooner we go back to doing what's RIGHT and to thinking about our DUTIES in the word rather than about our 'entitlements' the better place the world will be!
Monday, 20 August 2012
Legitimate rape?
A US politician running for the Senate has just got into trouble for saying that pregnancy doesn't result from 'legitimate rape.'
Of course he's been howled down by the feminists and disowned by almost everyone but if you go behind the rhetoric, the politics and the sloganising let's consider the FACTS.
In the first place what does he MEAN by a legitimate rape?
IS there such a thing?
Is ALL rape legitimate?
Are his facts CORRECT about the level of pregnancies resulting from rape?
I'll answer these questions not in the order I've posed them.
First off, I can't speak for American statistics (someone I know says that in the US the official figures for pregnancies resulting from rape are 4% but I find it hard to believe it's so low.
In Britain research has DEFINITELY shown that a girl is MORE likely to get pregnant if she's raped than if she has 'consensual sex.'
So actually if you look at it from the point of view of pure biology rape is a MORE efficient way of getting pregnant than consensual sex!
And the statistics are that pregnancy is MORE likely to come about through rape than through consensual sex!
So the guy's facts are wrong - probably obtained from some feminist source or something equally untrustworthy.
So let's get back to the biggie; what IS a legitimate rape?
Well, IMO the answer's pretty simple.
If a husband, partner, boyfriend or person in a similar relationship has sex with a girl even if it really IS 'against her will' then it ISN'T real rape.
If a girl is leading a guy on and refusing to put out and he gets frustrated and forces her then it ISN'T real rape.
So ''rape' under any of those circumstances just ISN'T any big deal and certainly NOT any kind of crime.
So what about 'stranger rape?' Is THAT a legitimate rape or not?
Well, the way I look at it, if a girl is going out on her own or doing anything without her owner then she knows that the expectation is going to be that she's at the very least looking for a good time if not a downright whore.
So if a girl goes out on her own and gets raped then IMO she deserves everything she got!
Whichever way I look at it I keep coming back to the same conclusion.
Rape is NOT a crime, CANNOT be a crime and SHOULD not be listed as a crime on the statute books.
ANY girl who gets raped has obviously ASKED for it and is only getting what she deserves.
End of1
Of course he's been howled down by the feminists and disowned by almost everyone but if you go behind the rhetoric, the politics and the sloganising let's consider the FACTS.
In the first place what does he MEAN by a legitimate rape?
IS there such a thing?
Is ALL rape legitimate?
Are his facts CORRECT about the level of pregnancies resulting from rape?
I'll answer these questions not in the order I've posed them.
First off, I can't speak for American statistics (someone I know says that in the US the official figures for pregnancies resulting from rape are 4% but I find it hard to believe it's so low.
In Britain research has DEFINITELY shown that a girl is MORE likely to get pregnant if she's raped than if she has 'consensual sex.'
So actually if you look at it from the point of view of pure biology rape is a MORE efficient way of getting pregnant than consensual sex!
And the statistics are that pregnancy is MORE likely to come about through rape than through consensual sex!
So the guy's facts are wrong - probably obtained from some feminist source or something equally untrustworthy.
So let's get back to the biggie; what IS a legitimate rape?
Well, IMO the answer's pretty simple.
If a husband, partner, boyfriend or person in a similar relationship has sex with a girl even if it really IS 'against her will' then it ISN'T real rape.
If a girl is leading a guy on and refusing to put out and he gets frustrated and forces her then it ISN'T real rape.
So ''rape' under any of those circumstances just ISN'T any big deal and certainly NOT any kind of crime.
So what about 'stranger rape?' Is THAT a legitimate rape or not?
Well, the way I look at it, if a girl is going out on her own or doing anything without her owner then she knows that the expectation is going to be that she's at the very least looking for a good time if not a downright whore.
So if a girl goes out on her own and gets raped then IMO she deserves everything she got!
Whichever way I look at it I keep coming back to the same conclusion.
Rape is NOT a crime, CANNOT be a crime and SHOULD not be listed as a crime on the statute books.
ANY girl who gets raped has obviously ASKED for it and is only getting what she deserves.
End of1
Friday, 18 May 2012
Back in business!
Sorry for the long break. There has been illness in the family which has drastically taken up most of my time.
I hope to be posting more challenging articles in the near future.
In the meantime I'm just announcing that i'm back!
I hope to be posting more challenging articles in the near future.
In the meantime I'm just announcing that i'm back!
Tuesday, 14 February 2012
The unimportance of a woman's consent
The unimportance of a woman’s consent
I dealt with the question of consent in an earlier post but
this time I want to go into it in a bit more detail and from several different
angles.
There are several different ways in which consent can be
interpreted but the main ones are active consent, where one or more parties
deliberately pursue a course of action; tacit consent, where their failure to act implies consent; negative
consent, where people complain but go along with it in spite of their
objections; and implicit consent, where by doing or not doing something they
are implying consent to an act.
As well as these areas, where consent is required to some extent, there’s also the question of the many
situations where consent is not only not
needed but is an irrelevant factor.
How can a child consent or refuse to consent to anything meaningful?
Of course that doesn’t mean that kids don’t need protecting
from predatory adults like paedophiles; that they don’t need to be tended and
not neglected or abused; that they don’t have certain basic human rights that
need to be respected.
What it does mean is that they can’t give an active,
informed consent to pretty well anything and adults, especially family members,
have to decide for them.
In the same way, criminals can’t be allowed to “consent” to
their punishment any more than lunatics can “consent” to their medical
treatment.
Nor can animals “consent” to being owned or object to their
owners’ treatment of them.
I’m going to try and show how and why I think that females
fall into the same category of a person whose consent is not necessary and is an irrelevant
factor.
To begin with, it’s arguable whether us girls are even human
beings at all. Men are; it’s not so clear with girls. If we’re not human then of course human rights don’t and can’t apply to us.
I’m not totally sure if we are human or not [http://bornwithacunt.blogspot.com/2011/06/are-women-human.html]. From a purely personal point of view I hope we are but I’m
not sure.
What is certain is
that we’re genetically inferior to
men. Women are closer to the apes than men are. The male is a higher, more
evolved species than the female. [http://bornwithacunt.blogspot.com/2011/05/girls-closer-to-apes-than-men-are.html]
So, at the very least, us girls are less human than men.
That means that we’re less
capable of giving our “consent” to anything than men are and that our “consent”
or non-consent is at least less
important than a man’s consent, if not an entirely irrelevant issue.
Secondly, as well as being genetically inferior to men, we’re
also less intelligent than they are. Our brains are smaller than men’s; they
process information differently; and we have far less ability to reason, think
abstractly and deal with shapes and numbers.
The bottom line is we’re more stupid than men.
Again, our innate stupidity makes the question of our
“consent” less important and a factor that can, quite reasonably, be ignored
completely if necessary.
Another aspect of the way our smaller brains work is that
we’re more emotional than men and so we find it harder to think rationally and
tend just to follow our whims and feelings.
Another way we fall down in comparison with men is how we
react in a crisis. Women tend to freeze and panic while men think and act to
get out of a dangerous situation.
All these facts make the question of a woman’s “consent” far
less important than a man’s consent. He consents with open eyes, in full
knowledge of the facts and more or less understanding the consequences of his
actions. Women tend to drift on a sea of uninformed emotion and indecisiveness.
So let’s recap briefly:
1
Women may not even be human at all
2
Even if they are, science tells us they’re a
lower form of humanity than men are
3
Women are less capable of giving consent because
of their closer relationship to animals
4
Women are more stupid than men and therefore
less capable of giving consent
5
Women are less rational than men and therefore
less capable of giving consent
6
Women are more emotional than men and therefore
less capable of giving consent
7
Women freeze in a crisis which makes them less
capable of giving consent
When you put all these factors together, it’s difficult not
to feel that women don’t even know what they’re doing half the time, why
they’re doing it and how they really think/feel about it.
The bottom line is, a woman’s “consent” is just not relevant. It’s nice if she does
consent but her “consent” just isn’t necessary or even important and can quite
reasonably be ignored.
As a logo I saw on the web said, “Our Will Does Not Matter.”
Friday, 10 February 2012
Welfare sluts
Welfare sluts
One of the biggest problems we've got in society is the amount of money we're wasting on paying so-called single mothers millions in benefits.
Why?
Because they got pregnant and couldn't be bothered to do the decent thing and marry the bloke?
Well, the way I see it, you've got to take the consequences of what you do in life. If you're going to go around having it off and you're up the duff as a result, well, I'd say that's YOUR problem.
Why should WE have to pick up the tab for a bunch of slappers?
And look at all the goodies they get given to them on a plate - free council homes, housing benefit, "lone parent" benefit, family allowance, free teeth, free pretty well everything! Those "single mums" are nothing but a bunch of freeloaders!
Well, it's high time this particular gravy train got run right into the buffers!
If a bloke goes with a prostitute and has it off with her she isn't going to come on to him for money if she winds up with a bun in the oven!
So why should WE be expected to fork out OUR hard-earned dosh so that a bunch of part-time whores can live high on the hog on OUR money just because they couldn't keep their legs closed?
These girls aren't "single mums" or "lone parents;" they're welfare sluts getting paid by the taxpayer for having it off!
So how can we get rid of the problem of these welfare sluts?
The first thing to do is to stop REWARDING the whores for opening their legs and start PUNISHING them for it!
Here's my five-point plan for getting rid of the problem of welfare sluts for GOOD.
1 Take away their council homes
2 Take away their housing benefit
3 Take away their "lone parent" benefit and family allowance
4 Take away their bastard kids and put them up for adoption with MARRIED couples
5 Send the lazy slags out to do a PROPER day's work!
If we do all that then these welfare sluts will disappear overnight..
And a good thing too!
One of the biggest problems we've got in society is the amount of money we're wasting on paying so-called single mothers millions in benefits.
Why?
Because they got pregnant and couldn't be bothered to do the decent thing and marry the bloke?
Well, the way I see it, you've got to take the consequences of what you do in life. If you're going to go around having it off and you're up the duff as a result, well, I'd say that's YOUR problem.
Why should WE have to pick up the tab for a bunch of slappers?
And look at all the goodies they get given to them on a plate - free council homes, housing benefit, "lone parent" benefit, family allowance, free teeth, free pretty well everything! Those "single mums" are nothing but a bunch of freeloaders!
Well, it's high time this particular gravy train got run right into the buffers!
If a bloke goes with a prostitute and has it off with her she isn't going to come on to him for money if she winds up with a bun in the oven!
So why should WE be expected to fork out OUR hard-earned dosh so that a bunch of part-time whores can live high on the hog on OUR money just because they couldn't keep their legs closed?
These girls aren't "single mums" or "lone parents;" they're welfare sluts getting paid by the taxpayer for having it off!
So how can we get rid of the problem of these welfare sluts?
The first thing to do is to stop REWARDING the whores for opening their legs and start PUNISHING them for it!
Here's my five-point plan for getting rid of the problem of welfare sluts for GOOD.
1 Take away their council homes
2 Take away their housing benefit
3 Take away their "lone parent" benefit and family allowance
4 Take away their bastard kids and put them up for adoption with MARRIED couples
5 Send the lazy slags out to do a PROPER day's work!
If we do all that then these welfare sluts will disappear overnight..
And a good thing too!
Tuesday, 7 February 2012
The how and why of what I am
Since I started my blog I've had a lot of reaction to it. Some haven't responded directly and instead have made nasty comments - generally anonymously - on other sites putting out lies about me and about my blog.
Both men and women have liked some, most or even all of what I've said. Both men and women have disliked some, most or even all of what I've said.
Those who disagree with me tend to take three main points of view. The most common "anti" reaction is to assume that I'm writing satire and don't believe a word of what I say. The second most common "anti" reaction is to claim I'm really a man pretending to be a woman. The third "anti" reaction is to assume that I'm a mentally ill self-hating woman.
I can understand the argument that I'm writing satire. It's actually PARTLY true. I DO have a sense of humour; I DO enjoy winding people up; I DO like playing devil's advocate; I DO enjoy satire; and I can also deliberately use "shock jock" tactics to make a point.
Sometimes I'll push an argument to its extremes and see where it takes me..
At times, especially lately, I've looked back on some of the more outrageous posts I've made in the past and wished that maybe I'd expressed myself in a less sensationalist way.
Some of the things I said werre more like provocative debating points than necessarily meant literally.
And, of course, like most people, when it comes to the crunch I'd want my own family and my own situation NOT to be as extreme as some of the ideas I put forward.
I'm a writer of stories as well and I guess the boundarires between my vivid imagination and reality sometimes get a bit blurred in my mind.
All of those things are true about me and need to be remembered when you're reading my posts.
That DOESN'T mean I'm being insincere.
I won't waste any time responding to the nonsense about me being a bloke. Faye Kane gets the same lie hurled at her and it's just as much crap in my case as it is in hers.
For the record, I DON'T have a cock and balls; I've got tits and a cunt and I've given birth to three kids!
Now for the idea that I'm a loony tune self-hating woman.
Sometimes I've even wondered myself if that COULD be true.
The thing is, I DID get raped when I was 18 years old. Some people think it fucked me up for the rest of my life and scrambled my brain so I can't think straight.
Well, in quite a few ways it DID and maybe even still DOES.
On the other hand, my rape was ALSO a moment of pretty profound illumination for me.
You could almost call it a mystical experience.
It was my "road to Damascus" moment.
I had the BEST fucking orgasm of my life when I was being raped!
When I WAS raped, even as it was happening I suddenly realised several things - about me, about the bloke who'd raped me, and about what it meant for my life.
I'll try and keep it short because this post is already too long.
In the first place I realised it was MY fault that I'd got raped. I was drunk, dressed like a slut, talking dirty and deliberately leading the guy on. Basically I was behaving like a bully towards him and I only got what I DESERVED for the appallling way I treated him,
I also realised that because I'd had an ORGASM while I was being raped that meant that really I HAD consented to the "rape."
What I had that mystical day was NOT some horrific violent assault upon me; it was an entirely CONSENSUAL sexual act.
The very fact that I orgasmed PROVED that I'd CONSENTED to having sex!
I didn't suddenly turn overnight into the woman I am today but as a result of what I NOW see through the mists of time (nearly 13 years later) as being an act of KINDNESS towards me.
My "rape" - actually my CONSENSUAL "rough sex" - began to open my eyes to a new way of looking at the world.
Since that day other men have helped me towards the truth, particularly my wonderful husband and a number of men I've met online.
But if it hadn't been for that act of kindness towards me all those years ago I might STILL be the spoilt, arrogant feminist bitch I was at 18.
It sounds corny but this is NOT a piece of satire; NOT a piece of self-hatred.
It comes from the heart and is utterly sincere.
"Thank you, Mr Rapist, for the kindness you showed me all those years ago,"
Both men and women have liked some, most or even all of what I've said. Both men and women have disliked some, most or even all of what I've said.
Those who disagree with me tend to take three main points of view. The most common "anti" reaction is to assume that I'm writing satire and don't believe a word of what I say. The second most common "anti" reaction is to claim I'm really a man pretending to be a woman. The third "anti" reaction is to assume that I'm a mentally ill self-hating woman.
I can understand the argument that I'm writing satire. It's actually PARTLY true. I DO have a sense of humour; I DO enjoy winding people up; I DO like playing devil's advocate; I DO enjoy satire; and I can also deliberately use "shock jock" tactics to make a point.
Sometimes I'll push an argument to its extremes and see where it takes me..
At times, especially lately, I've looked back on some of the more outrageous posts I've made in the past and wished that maybe I'd expressed myself in a less sensationalist way.
Some of the things I said werre more like provocative debating points than necessarily meant literally.
And, of course, like most people, when it comes to the crunch I'd want my own family and my own situation NOT to be as extreme as some of the ideas I put forward.
I'm a writer of stories as well and I guess the boundarires between my vivid imagination and reality sometimes get a bit blurred in my mind.
All of those things are true about me and need to be remembered when you're reading my posts.
That DOESN'T mean I'm being insincere.
I won't waste any time responding to the nonsense about me being a bloke. Faye Kane gets the same lie hurled at her and it's just as much crap in my case as it is in hers.
For the record, I DON'T have a cock and balls; I've got tits and a cunt and I've given birth to three kids!
Now for the idea that I'm a loony tune self-hating woman.
Sometimes I've even wondered myself if that COULD be true.
The thing is, I DID get raped when I was 18 years old. Some people think it fucked me up for the rest of my life and scrambled my brain so I can't think straight.
Well, in quite a few ways it DID and maybe even still DOES.
On the other hand, my rape was ALSO a moment of pretty profound illumination for me.
You could almost call it a mystical experience.
It was my "road to Damascus" moment.
I had the BEST fucking orgasm of my life when I was being raped!
When I WAS raped, even as it was happening I suddenly realised several things - about me, about the bloke who'd raped me, and about what it meant for my life.
I'll try and keep it short because this post is already too long.
In the first place I realised it was MY fault that I'd got raped. I was drunk, dressed like a slut, talking dirty and deliberately leading the guy on. Basically I was behaving like a bully towards him and I only got what I DESERVED for the appallling way I treated him,
I also realised that because I'd had an ORGASM while I was being raped that meant that really I HAD consented to the "rape."
What I had that mystical day was NOT some horrific violent assault upon me; it was an entirely CONSENSUAL sexual act.
The very fact that I orgasmed PROVED that I'd CONSENTED to having sex!
I didn't suddenly turn overnight into the woman I am today but as a result of what I NOW see through the mists of time (nearly 13 years later) as being an act of KINDNESS towards me.
My "rape" - actually my CONSENSUAL "rough sex" - began to open my eyes to a new way of looking at the world.
Since that day other men have helped me towards the truth, particularly my wonderful husband and a number of men I've met online.
But if it hadn't been for that act of kindness towards me all those years ago I might STILL be the spoilt, arrogant feminist bitch I was at 18.
It sounds corny but this is NOT a piece of satire; NOT a piece of self-hatred.
It comes from the heart and is utterly sincere.
"Thank you, Mr Rapist, for the kindness you showed me all those years ago,"
Monday, 6 February 2012
Scientists show it's literally true to call us girls "dirty cunts!"
A woman's vagina has many more bacteria than a man's penis. The female vagina has a larger surface area and more bacteria tend to accumulate there. Many bacteria such as E.coli and others tend to take up residence in the female vagina.
Vaginosis or vaginitis is an inflammation which occurs in the vagina and includes several strains of germ that cause bacterial vaginosis yeast infections and trichomoniasis. Many women mistakenly believe that yeast infections are the most common type of vaginal infection but bacterial vaginosis is the most frequently occurring vaginal infection affecting from 10% to 64% of the population at any given time
Vaginosis or vaginitis is an inflammation which occurs in the vagina and includes several strains of germ that cause bacterial vaginosis yeast infections and trichomoniasis. Many women mistakenly believe that yeast infections are the most common type of vaginal infection but bacterial vaginosis is the most frequently occurring vaginal infection affecting from 10% to 64% of the population at any given time
So, as you can see, even the scientists agree. Us girls are LITERALLY dirty cunts!.
Saturday, 4 February 2012
Why feminism sucks
Why feminism sucks
by worthlessfem @ 2011-05-17 – 23:26:14
I'm a woman, but I'm not a feminist.
Not at all; not even one tiny bit.
I've got NO sympathy for the so-called "women's movement,"
When I say things like that to a lot of people, especially women, they look at me with a mixture of horror, embarrssment and disbelief. It's as if I'd said some dirty word in church or something. Saying I don't believe in feminism when I'm a woman, according to some "feminist thinkers," supposedly makes me a "gender traitor."
A gender traitor? Blimey! And I didn't even know men and women were at war! I thought we were both supposed to be part of the whole cosmic thing, the greater scheme of things and all that.
I had no idea we were supposed to be enemies!
Anyway, what exactly do feminists want? Let's take a brief overview of what they say they want. These are not in any particular order by the way.
1 Equality
2 Equal opportunity
3 An end to domestic violence
4 An end to rape
5 Affirmative action
6 Positive discrimination
7 Separate but equal treatment
8 Abortion on demand
9 Female empowerment
10Ban on pornography
There are others which some want and not all feminists agree on even some of the 10 I've quoted but that's the broad brush stroke of what they say they want.
Let's begin by pointing out some obvious contradictions and redundancies.
If a society is equal then obviously equal opportunity is part of that so point 2 is redundant. If a society is equal then points 5, 6 and 7 are in direct CONFLICT with what they claim they want. Point 9 also seems a bit iffy if you believe in equality,
Most people (including most MEN) would broadly agree with them about rape and domestic violence. There's two problem there though IMO.
The first is that the definition of both has been stretched so widely that they've lost any meaning they might have had once. There's a lunatic fringe of the feminists which is now calling for consensual sex between a man and a woman to be a criminal offence unless the guy is able to produce written consent to sex by the woman! Not just in general, either; a specific written consent to each and every act of sex. Otherwise the guy can be charged with rape!
How crazy is that? Maybe we should just get a lawyer standing in line in every bedroom with a written contract drawn up and the guy signs it every time he wants to have sex!
And it's "gender discrimination" in any case because there's no corresponding obligation on the woman to sign this paper stating that the man was a willing participant! Would that mean that a woman could now get away with rape but a man can't even have consensual sex with his own partner without drawing up a legal document first?
Utter madness!
And, of course, the likes of Andrea Dworkin, Susan Brownmiller and others have argued that unless the woman directly initates and controls the act of sex then even consensual sex is rape!
So let's get this right; if the man initiates and controls the sex it's rape but if the woman does it isn't?
Yeah, right.
Funny how all that talk about equality and equal opportunities went out of the window, isn't it?
The whole idea of "separate but equal" treatment is a heap of lies. That's what the segregationists in the south used to argue they had in terms of the treatment of African-Americans and the Supreme Court rhrew it out as unconstitutional. Yet again and again I've seen that exact phrase used by feminists to justify a more privileged position in society for women.If
That equality thing again, right?
Funny how much it reminds me of "Animal Farm" where Orwell gets the main character to say "all animals are equal but some are more equal than others!"
The fact is that the feminist claims to equality are a lie. They don't want equal treaament; they want a privileged status for women and for the law and society to favour women more than men.
Well, ladies, that might be your gynocratic utopia but there's no way it's anything resembling either equality or equal opportunity!
The same thing goes for "affirmative action" or "positive discrimination" programmes. If you appoint the person you genuinely feel is the best for the job regardless of gender, skin colour or whatever that's being non-discriminatory., If you have quota systems where you force employers or whatever to choose a less capable person simply because of their gender or skin colour or whatever that's just being racist or sexist and there's nothing "positive" about what you're doing. Once again, the feminist claim that they want equality is just a lie.
The rape question is more complex. I know my views on rape are unconventional to put it mildly so I'll just argue with feminism from the mainstream point of view.
Rape, according to the law, is a sexual act carried out against the wishes of the other person and without their consent. Men can rape women or other men and women can rape men or other women. The issue of consent is crucial in establishing whether or not a sexual act was an act of rape or a consensual encounter.
Now in normal criminal cases like if you're accused of stealing something (probably the nearest legal parallel to rape) the court has to prove beyond a reasonable doubt that you did commit the act of theft. There's a presumption of innocence, the need to produce hard evidence and (ideally) eyewitness testimony. The burden of proof is on the prosecution to show that you did it.
In rape cases, all this is stood on its head. There's no requirement for eyewitness testimony (obviously that's often difficult so we can let that one go)' the burden of proof is shifted from the accuser to the defendant so instead of her having to prove that he did rape her, he is compelled to try and prove tha the didn't; there's a presumption of guilt; due process is routinely ignored or set aside; and no hard evidence against the defendant has to be produced. Routinely, innocent men are sentenced to prison for crimes they didn't commit, as DNA tests have subsequently shown. Out of the men in the US who've been CONVICTED of rape and served time in prison and then subsequently got DNA testing, 60% turned out to have been NOT guilty. In other words, they not only hadn't raped the woman; they couldn't have raped her. The only reason the man was sent to prison was because the woman lied about what had happened.
So, OK, the woman lied about being raped. What happens to her? 9 times out of 10, nothing at all. At worst she might get a slap on the wrist. Once in a blue moon one will get sent to prison for about 5 minutes but that's rare. Yet she's c learly guilty of perjury and reckless endangerment by her lying about what happened. So why should she get a free pass?
Then there's the question of "anonymity." The feminists claim that it's essential for the identity of the accuser, or as they habitually refer to her, the "rape victim," to be protected.
Fine, let's go with that. But what about the accused? Why doesn't he get the same right to anonymity? Why is it OK to splash his name and photo all over the media but not hers? What's sauce for the goose should also be sauce for the gander, as the saying goes.
That old "eqaulity" thing again, right?
Once again we see feminists demanding special privileges for women that they deny to men. They are quite happy to violate due process, set aside the presumption of innocence, and allow "evidence" in rape cases that would be thrown out of court in other types of criminal trial. Why? Do they really want equality? Or do they just hate men?
There's also the fact that in 45% of cases in Britain where the woman goes to the police and it's investigated, it's found out during the course of the enquiry that the woman is lying about being raped. That means that nearly half of the cases brought to the attention of the cops are phoney raps.On top of that in 53% of cases where she makes an accusation and then withdraws it, investigation shows that, once again, she was lying about being raped.
Now I'm no greatr mathematician but whatever way you look at those statistics they add up to the same thing. Most claims by women that they were raped are false and downright lies.
So why do people believe in this vast conspiracy of rapists that the feminists put about? Search me! I guess it's partly a genuine fear of crime, fear to the point of paranoia; partly because we've been brainwashed by lies; and partly just salacious interest. Whatever, the facts simply don't support the feminist claims on rape and nor do they provide any excuse for the feminist subversion of due process, the presumption of innocence and lowering the bar for evidence and testimony in "rape" trials.
Out of the cases that DO come to court, in 40% of them it's shown either at the trial or subesequently that, guess what, once again the woman was lying about what happened. No crime, except maybe domestic violence, is more often lied about than rape. Women use it as a weapon to intimidate a man they've fallen out with, as an excuse for their shame at the consensual sex they had, or even to cover up some other offence that they, not the man, committed.
On top of that even when an accused man can show beyond a reasonable doubt that he did not rape the woman he can still be convicted and sent to prison solely on the unsupported word of his accuser. That old equality again, right? Crime labs routinely knowingly falsify the results of DNA tests and other forensic items that are entered into evidence and lead to the conviction of wholly innocent men. Linda Fairstein, former head of the sex-crimes unit of the Ma nhattan DA's office, says that 50% of the rape cases she dealt with were based on unfounded accusations and were entirely baseless. In other words, half of the claims just in the cases she dealt with were nothing more than malicious lies! Although they're reluctant to publicise the fact, the majority of cases investigated by the Innocence Project concern allegations of rape.
Even when the claims of rape are so clearly false, feminists still maintain their fantasies in violation of the truth. In one notorious case a student at a university in America eventually admitted that she'd lied about being raped by a male student (they hadn't even HAD sex!) and a "feminist thinker" commented, "well, maybe he didn't actually rape her, but he clearly violated her in some way." A VAssar assistant dean went even further, claiming that it was "good" for a man to be falsely accused of rape, since it forced him to think "well, if I didn't violate her, could I have done?"
Most rape accusations are lies and the same, sadly, is also true of "domestic violence." This is defined so loosely that almost anyone could be sent to prison for it. The U.S. Justice Department definition of "domestic violence" includes "extreme jealousy and possessiveness.," "name calling" and "constant criticizing." as acts of "domestic violence." On the basic of such fantastic claims, men in America are routinely jailed, often even without ever being brought to trial! .
Even worse, according to officially reported figures released by police, allegation of domesitc violence by women against men now stand s at a figure of 38%. Given the extreme reluctance of men to report abuse by their wives and girlfriends against them, senior police sources unofficially admit that the majority of domestic violence in Britain is now carried out agaist men by women. Yet where is the publicity for the cause of "batterd men?" Where are the shelters for thme to hide away from their abusers? #where is the rapid intervention by the police to arrest the woman before she kills or seriusly injures her man?
Well, where is it? Nowhere, of course. Under the posionous influence of feminism, men are slowly being turned into second class citizens.
What we hear instead is a relentless and dishonest chorus about violence by men against women when even the police admit that nowadays the majority of domestic violence cases are actually assaults by women upon men! As the innate chivalry of men, to say nothing of their social embarrasment at having to report their wife or girlfriend, makes them disproportiobately less likely to file a complaint, the police s7uspect that the true figures show that around 66% of actual domestic assaults are carried out by women against men, Yet neither the media nor government addresses or even discusses the problem in any way. Women habitually portray themselves as the victims and men are castigated as brutal abusers who are battering their partners almost non-stop.
Bad as the situation is in Britain, it is even worse in America. The law is stacked against the male defendant to such an extent that cases of domestic violence now resemble the "justice" system in countries like North Kore3a or Iran. One judge in New Jersey, for instance, told his fellow jurists, "Your job is not to become concerned about the constitutional rights of the man that you’re violating.”
Even the official court publications of New Jersey admit that due process is routinely ignored in domestic violence cases because "it perpetuates the cycle of power and control wherby the perpetrator remains the one with the power and the victim remains powerless." Look at the loaded language used as well - "perpetrator" and "victim" rather than "accused" and "defendant." The guilt is assumed simply because charges have been brought. The presumption of innocence, likd eue process, is chucked on the scrapheap. A New York "feminist" judge describes the removal of the presumption of innocence as forcing "batterrers and abusers take responsibility for their actions."
There are also Kafkaesque tribunals known as "integrated domestic violence courts" where the guilt of the defendant is automatically assumed and which have the power to seize property, including homes, even though the person accused has not been convicted or even charged with any offence. Nor is it necessary to allow them to be present at the "hearings" where such decisions are taken to defend himself , or represented by a lawyer at them. These "domestic violence courts" are deliberately set up to evade the constitutional rights of the citizen and even the existing criminal law with its guarantees of protection., The presumption is of guilt and not innocence, the burden of proof is done away with altogether, and it has become standard practice for "confessions" to be extorted from the accused by a variety of means.
Pennsylvania is in a class of its own when it comes to this issue. In that state, men are routinely arrested and held in custody until they sign a "confession" stating "I have physically and emotionally battered my partner.” The man is then order to "descibe" his "violence," even if he insists that he did notr commit any. His "confession" also includes the words "I am responsible for the violence I used,” the forms declare. “My behavior was not provoked.” If he does not sign these forms, he can be held indefinitely in prison, without any chafrge, until he does sign them.
So what we have is a situation where a man accused of domestic violence can be held in prison without charge, have his property and assets seized without trial, even if he insists on his innocence. If a man accuses his partner of the same offence, she will not be subjected to the same kind of treatment and is far less likely to be convicted if the case comes to court. And that's in spite of the fact that women are the aggressors in two-thirds of the cases!
And, of course, unlike the law in Britain, where the violence at least has to be physical, in the Stater you can be treated like this just on the basis of ""extreme jealousy and possessiveness.," "name calling" and "constant criticizing!."It's like the old days where a "nagging wife" could be subjected to the "scold's bridle" except that these days its' a "nagging husband!" .
That old feminist equality thing again, right? Yeah, right!
For all their gobby ranting about equality, feminists don't want it at all. They want to rule men in the same way the slaveowners ruled the slaves in the old days. They're gynocrats and not democrats. They compalin about patriarchy but want to institute a matriarchy.
The obvious incompatibility between affirmative action, positive discrimination and "separate but equal" claims with their boasted belief in equality is just total hypocrisy. They just want the hens to rool the roost.
Feminism is an essentially Nazi way of looking at the world. Feminists look on men in the same way the Nazis looked at the Jews and gypsies and they're every bit as ruthless, dishonest and indifferent to the sufferings of their victims. A lot of people don't know this but Nazi Germany was the first state where openly feminist women got positions of power. Guida Diehls, Lydia Gottschewski, Gertrude Scholtz-Klink wielded huge power, greater than any woman had had since the days of Catherine the Great or was to see again before Indira Gandhi and Margaret Thatcher. Gottschweski, a loathsome racist and militarist, is listed on a feminist website as one of its "Women of Wisdoms" and coyly described as "a German political activits," though the site carefully avoids saying which ;party she was active on behalf of!
Feminism doesn't even respect women. It might hate and demonise men but its greatest contempt and hatred is reserved for what it calls, in a phrase reminiscent of the Ku Klux Klan's "race traitors," "gender traitors." Women like me who are "just" mothers and wives are looked upon with total contempt, regarded as stupid, unambitious, lazy and as "perpetuating the patriarchal power structure."
Bollocks!
Because these people are incapable of feeling love and compassion themselves, or tolerance for other points of view, or respect for other humans simply because we all share that rich humanity, they hate and demonise anyone who does.
The only "crime" of "gender traitor" me is the crime of love.
In the words of the poeet Pope, "is it, in heaven, a crime to love too well?"
Yes, Your Honour, I plead guilty to the crime of love.
As Luther said at his trial for heresy, "here I stand; I cannot do otherwise"
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